Why do guys irritate girls

Wait, what? How does this even make sense? It doesn't, and we should either stop asking or actually follow through with good advice. Spoiler alert: It's not cute when we do this. We might be able to get away with it once or twice but overall, it's not adorable to act as though we were never wrong in the first place. What is adorable, however, is taking responsibility, being mature, and not smiling when we've hurt someone's feelings or done them wrong. We've probably all done this unintentionally, especially those of us who are social butterflies.

It's easy to pal around with a guy and be 'one of the guys' without realizing we could be making our own guy pretty uncomfortable. Knowing boundaries is important and all it takes is a bit of thought before we jump into their arms as a joke. This is definitely not to say that we should date every guy who compliments our appearance and genuinely means it.

But it is nice sometimes to give someone a chance simply because they're kind-hearted and loyal, even though that's not always our style. Something we can do is stop giving the bad guys a chance, and that's a pretty good start. We're pretty great, right? That's no reason for us to go on for a solid ten minutes about ourselves and everything pertaining to us, though.

Why bother having relationships or friendships at that point? If all we're capable of us talking about ourselves, we might as well go start a conversation with a mirror. This usually goes hand-in-hand with the 'acting cute to get out of bad behavior' point. Not only can we rage with the best of them when we're hardcore craving chocolate and salt simultaneously, but we can say some pretty mean things, too.

All we can do is apologize and explain and sometimes even that's too tough for us to do. Females are so much better at this than males are. Share Facebook. Why do guys annoy girls when they like them? Add Opinion. Have your feelings known to the guy, say to him that you love him, ask him why he is acting funny and ask him to stop annoying you, if he loves you, he will listen. But if he annoys you do you really want to go out with him, wouldn't it be better to find someone else who doesn't annoy you and act weird.

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They always ask you to put their stuff in your purse because they're too afraid to wear a man bag. They don't use the stuff they ask you to put in your purse. You have to hang out with their friends' shitty significant others. They have so much laundry because all their clothes have guy smell after an hour of wear. They put their arm around you when you walk together which weighs you down and gives you hunchback.

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